R J Matson

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A (temporary) New World Order

Yesterday, my wife departed Fort Worth on a short trip to visit our son in Philadelphia.

She and I are more grandparents than parents these days, so when she is gone I am left in the house to fend for myself. I don't mind, in fact, I kind of like a few days to watch too much television, leave the potato chip bag on the coffee table, and find my books and magazines wherever it is that I had last left them.

I have a re-organizational ritual on occasions like this which, I am sure, is rooted in a male territorial instinct. Here it is:

1. I clean and reorganize the refrigerator. It doesn't need cleaning but I like to be able to easily get to the few things I want.
2. I do my laundry and stack the clean clothes on the dryer. Why bother putting them away?
3. Bathroom. I find the biggest towel I can and throw it on the floor. It's more masculine, like a locker room.
4. I put the dishes away and close up the dishwasher for the duration. No need for dishes now, I'm going to paper plates, baby.
5. Clear the kitchen counters of all bric-a-brac. Bricabrac is defined as anything that looks nice but serves no purpose and just gets in my way.
6. Pull out a roll of paper towels, place on kitchen counter. I'm feeling better already.
7. Rearrange the living room furniture to maximize comfort and to minimize extraneous movement (see photo above). The goal is for everything that is frequently needed to be at arms length of the couch. I then run through a mental checklist of the near-couch necessities:

Books -- check,
Crossword puzzles -- check,
Pens -- got 'em,
TV Remote on coffee table -- check
Wall Street Journal -- check.
Laptop on coffee table, check.
Baseball schedule and basketball playoffs for the week. AOK.

 The final step in this domicilic-bonding is to go shopping for items that I particularly like. Not that the wife doesn't keep me supplied, but I always need a few things. This time I went to my favorite store, Dollar General, and picked up the following (see picture): paper plates, bag of dry pinto beans (not sure why I bought those), jalapeno papers, cereal, lots of cereal, paper towels, albacore tuna in water, Triscuit wheat crackers.

Upon completion of all these things, I look at all that I have done, and declare, "It is good." Male order has been restored. I have re-marked my territory.

In a couple days I'll be complaining about it being too quiet, but for now, I'm ready for some serious time-wasting.

(Miss you, dear, and I will clean up before you get back. Love, Me)

Fort Worth Blogs. What's New? What's Changing?

We have a healthy list of active bloggers in Fort Worth. We have a few dropping off but many more starting. 

Following is a list of new blogs and a couple of our most prominent blogs. For a more complete list of Fort Worth sites and blogs see the column to the right: "Local Sites I like."

June Naylor. Fort Worth Star Telegram food critic, June Naylor, started a blog a few months ago and is commenting on her travels around Texas. This blog provides reviews of popular and out-of-the-way restaurants in Fort Worth and all of Texas. She promotes her Texas Toast Culinary Tours through the blog. It is well written, of course, and a great resource for Texas lovers.

FortWorthology. Still "numero uno" for building and development information in Fort Worth as well as up to date business news on restaurants. Great photos and detailed information. Kevin Buchanan is a part of the Near Southside development group that promotes the area just south of downtown, including my favorite street, Magnolia.

Eat This Fort Worth. The best blog for information on what to do in Fort Worth -- this weekend. And good reviews of area restaurants. Always up-to-date information for food lovers in Fort Worth.

Steven Wade Smith. Steve hasn't posted much lately but he does have a sidebar on his blog where he reports on what he is reading, watching, or listening to. The sidebar always has something good. Steve is a writer worth emulating.

DFW.com the food blog: The most visited food-related site in Fort Worth. DFW.com is a product of the Fort Worth Star Telegram.

Long Horn Lucy. I think she is retiring. Sorry to say. I like her posts.

Thoughts of Net Developer. Jake is not posting on his blog as much as he used to but if you follow him on Twitter (gooberdlx) you can keep up with the web, cloud computing, Apple,  assorted tech things, Drop.io -- and restaurants, pubs, etc., in Fort Worth.

Hole in the Wall -- still cranking out good restaurant reviews. One or two a month. Unless I'm mistaken Hole in the Wall hasn't posted in about a month.

The Ravelled Sleave. A frequent commenter on F&FW. A good blogger and a devoted knitter.

Food and Fort Worth: Drivel -- don't waste your time.

New to me:

Just Me Saying. I like this blog. Easy to read and informative. Food, tech, Fort Worth.

Doohickie. Fort Worth guy writing about life in Fort Worth, especially bicycling.

Horsebits. This one is hard to put in a category but I have been going there often since I found it. Very bright guy, written in a stream-of-consciousness type way with lots of interesting links. Book reviews, business practices. One of my favorites.